Master motivator for women
"Fortunately, other than the parents - no matter how they were good or bad - on the path of his older, we encounter many other people. Some of them can teach us something very close could not - more often just because they themselves could not. Many of us were lucky to find time to "habitat" in which intelligence and independence are not regarded as something unhealthy and unnatural for women. And talking with those who held - a human being, a woman, for the most stringent professional account - do not get tired of wondering how much of them in their hour was literally saved by a circle of young naturalists, school literary seminar, not tired of life as a teacher, "smart talk "of an older brother, riding lessons ... You never know in advance what ways people come to us, meeting c which is really free us, give 'permission to take off. " But it is important to remember them with gratitude and know that in the later turns of the road they exist, real teacher. Those who respect the ability of students and thus do not seek to assert himself at their expense - because in this kind of self-affirmation do not need. "
(...) grandfather, teaching is not very interesting his own dad girl contact with a dictionary, play chess, swim. Teacher of biology, offered seemingly did not shine girl abilities to make a little experiment and independently analyze its results. Father, early resigning from the family, but comes to his daughter - a disapproving grunt mother and stepfather about "nailing the head of every child nonsense" - with the books, that were interesting to him. Driving instructor, patiently turning a pupil of the nervous "lady at the wheel" in a confident and skillful voditelya.Rukovoditel elective course, heard in matters of unsophisticated student ability to the original vision of the subject and, instead of irony, from a position of superiority - in detail and respectfully answers these questions. Scientific director. Confessor. Colleague. Publisher. And again - my grandfather, long deceased uncle, Father ... Their main "message" sometimes very simple and necessary as bread and water: "You can." In the subtext: breakdown, at risk, increasing the pressure, I am ready to enjoy your success, I'm wondering your opinion, you have a future, look and learn its to what can teach me ... You can.
When obtained, and when not, when the satellites following periods of life are saying and doing the opposite, when the need is too much to do well to fall into despair when lose one's attraction what seemed to the achievement of yesterday or this morning, when work disappears into the nether, and hope a few years of life, when the temptation more than anything not learn and live peacefully with "interest" - those votes will still be heard in us. Even if - and especially in this case - we have not been given of such meetings in reality. Then we grow, "raskoldovyvaem" own "can you" from themselves, from the books ... And continue the path of storm lantern. Because even if we did not have his father, who "always finds a way", it is vitally important to know that someone he was. "
Again (c) Thank you EL Mikhailov for the next" light in the window " in the wilds of their own worldview.
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